How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 6: Considering Your Motivational Chains

How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 6: Considering Your Motivational Chains

How concrete or abstract your goals are, and how you link them together, can have a big impact on your mood and overall well-being and, by extension, on your performance. 

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How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 5: Keeping Your Feedback Loops Running Smoothly

How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 5: Keeping Your Feedback Loops Running Smoothly

Your goal-achievement machinery only operates properly when you have information to work with, so the natural tendency to avoid bad news can gum up the works. Fortunately, you don't need to go far to find what you need to keep things moving. 

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How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 4: Goal Hierarchies and Your Emotions

How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 4: Goal Hierarchies and Your Emotions

How you feel en route to your goals involves more than the progress you're making. Exploring the third dimension of your goals helps you fine-tune your understanding of what matters to you, and discover new motivations.

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How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 3: Taking Your Rate of Progress Into Account

How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 3: Taking Your Rate of Progress Into Account

If you think that setting a goal and then achieving it on time will make you happy, then you may be in for a surprise. Your pace of progress is incredibly important to how you feel about the process of achievement, and sets the stage for what happens next.

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How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 2: Tackling the Rogue Aversion

How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 2: Tackling the Rogue Aversion

When it comes to your life, knowing what you don’t want, but not being sure what you do want, can cause you big problems. Free-floating aversions can sap your energy and feelings of well-being—and tending to them can yield widespread benefits.

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The Science of Loneliness and the Mindfulness Connection

The Science of Loneliness and the Mindfulness Connection

Between 15% and 30% of the U.S. population feels lonely chronically. Here I cover the causes and effects of loneliness, and the latest methods of working with it. Mindfulness meditation has a lot in common with them, so there's yet another reason to start meditating.  

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How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 1: The Push and Pull of Feedback Loops

How to Achieve Your Goals, Step 1: The Push and Pull of Feedback Loops

There's more to achievement than perseverance and brute force. That oversimplification can set you up for self-blame when you fall short, too. Here we begin to take a closer look at some of the variables that affect your ability to get what you want.   

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Three Reasons Why Numbered Lists Can Make You Unhappy

Three Reasons Why Numbered Lists Can Make You Unhappy

Judging by the internet, humans have an insatiable appetite for numbered lists (and small animals). As fun and informative as list posts can be, they can also reinforce unhealthy habits and thoughts, and impair your long-term happiness. 

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Acceptance vs. Change: Working Through the Paradox of Mindfulness Practice

Acceptance vs. Change: Working Through the Paradox of Mindfulness Practice

Mindfulness meditation can seem full of riddles. If practicing it involves accepting the way things are, then why would I practice in the first place? And how can it help me if I'm not supposed to try to change anything? Read on, and I'll try to clear it up for you.

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